Sub is the common short form of Submissive and refers to the submissive person within a BDSM dynamic.

Sissification refers to the process by which a person — usually a man — is gradually guided into a distinctly feminine role and appearance, often under the direction of a dominant person who shapes, evaluates, and drives the process forward.

Slapping refers to the deliberate act of striking with an open hand — to the face, buttocks, thighs, or other areas of the body. It's a direct, immediate form of impact play that requires little equipment but has a strong psychological and physical effect.

Spit Play refers to the erotic use of saliva — as a sign of intimacy, dominance, or humiliation. This can mean spitting on someone, saliva on the skin, kissing with a deliberate exchange of saliva, or saliva as part of oral practices.

A smoking fetish refers to the erotic fascination with smoking — the movements, the aesthetic, the smoke, the way someone holds a cigarette or slowly exhales. It's a visual fetish that draws strongly on certain associations.

A shaving fetish refers to the shared act of shaving intimate areas of the body as part of a session — an act that goes far beyond simple grooming.

A Scent Fetish refers to the erotic fascination with natural body scents — sweat, skin, hair, or other intimate scents of another person. Smell is one of the most direct and immediate senses, closely tied to memory and instinct.

Submissive refers, in a BDSM context, to a person who takes on the submissive role — surrendering control, following instructions, and yielding to the dominant person.

Scent Play refers to the deliberate use of smell as an erotic element — whether through perfume, essential oils, certain materials like leather or latex, or the natural scent of skin and hair.

Trampling refers to the deliberate act of stepping, standing, or walking on another person's body — as an erotic or BDSM practice. It's a form of dominance and body control that works with the weight and physical presence of the dominant person.

Training Scenarios refer to structured BDSM scenarios in which a submissive person is deliberately trained — in posture, behavior, language, or the completion of specific tasks. The dominant person sets rules, corrects, evaluates, and shapes.

Tie & Tease refers to a BDSM practice in which a person is restrained and then deliberately teased — through touch, stimulation, language, or the conscious withholding of touch. The restraint creates helplessness, the teasing creates tension that can't be released.

Tease & Denial refers to a BDSM practice in which a person is deliberately aroused — while the release of that arousal is consciously withheld or delayed. The thrill isn't in the orgasm, but in the state leading up to it.

Tantra combines Breathwork, the flow of energy, presence, and awareness with sexual encounter. Unlike conventional sex, Tantra isn't oriented toward orgasm but toward a state of deep physical and emotional connection.

Torture Games refer to erotic roleplay scenarios modeled on interrogation, captivity, or torture dynamics — fully staged and consensual, of course.

Tickle Torture refers to an intensified form of tickling in which the receiving person is tickled continuously over an extended period, often to the point of physical and emotional exhaustion.

Uniforms carry immediately recognizable social meaning — authority, discipline, a clear role within a hierarchy. A police uniform, a nurse's outfit, a stewardess uniform, or a military uniform instantly activate certain associations and fantasies.

Voyeurism refers to the erotic pleasure of watching — seeing other people during sex, undressing, or in intimate moments without actively participating oneself. As a sexual preference, voyeurism is widespread and completely normal.

Vanilla refers to encounters in the context of sex and eroticism that don't involve BDSM, kink, or specific fetishes — classic sex, tenderness, intimacy. The term isn't meant to be dismissive, even though it's sometimes used that way.

Vomit Play refers to the deliberate use of vomiting as an erotic element — either as part of degradation scenarios, as a physical edge experience, or as a specific fetish.