GLOSSARY – Kink, Fetish & BDSM from A to Z
Glossary
BALL BUSTING
Ball Busting – also known as CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) – refers to the deliberate stimulation or punishment of the male genital area through pain – kicking, hitting, squeezing, pinching, or other forms of targeted pressure on the penis and testicles.
BREATH CONTROL
Breath Control refers to the deliberate control or restriction of breathing as an erotic or BDSM practice. The body responds to breath restriction with an immediate rise in adrenaline, heightened bodily sensation, and a state of increased awareness that many people experience as extremely erotic.
COUPLES TRAINING
Couples Training refers to a guided session in which an escort works with a couple together on communication, intimacy, or specific dynamics – such as D/s structures, new practices, or simply a deeper physical connection.
CHASTITY PLAY
Chastity Play refers to BDSM practices in which access to orgasm or sexual stimulation is controlled or prevented through physical or psychological means.
CROSSDRESSING
Crossdressing refers to wearing clothing traditionally associated with the other gender – most often men wearing "women's clothing." Unlike a trans identity, Crossdressing isn't primarily about one's own gender identity, but about the erotic or liberating experience.
CANDAULISM
Candaulism refers to the erotic practice in which a person deliberately shows or displays their partner to a third person – live, through photos, or through descriptions.
DISCIPLINE
Discipline refers to a D/s dynamic in which the dominant person deliberately takes on an educational, guiding role — setting rules, evaluating the submissive person's behavior, and consistently enforcing them.
DIRTY TALK
Dirty Talk refers to the deliberate use of erotic and explicit language during a sexual encounter — explicit descriptions, fantasies, commands, or comments that create arousal and heighten the atmosphere.
DOUBLE PENETRATION
Double Penetration refers to simultaneous penetration by two objects or people — vaginal and anal at the same time, or two penetrations of the same opening.
DEEP THROAT
Deep Throat refers to taking the penis deep into the throat during oral sex — until the larynx itself is stimulated. It's an intense form of oral sex that requires suppressing a strong gag reflex and demands a high level of control and experience.
ELECTROSTIMULATION
Electrostimulation refers to the controlled use of electrical impulses as an erotic or BDSM practice. Weak electrical discharges create a tingling, warmth, or brief pain impulses on the skin.
EROTIC WRESTLING
Erotic Wrestling refers to physical wrestling between two or more people with an erotic or BDSM component. It's about physical strength, control, closeness, and the fight for dominance — who ends up on top, who yields.
FORCED ORGASM
Forced Orgasm refers to a BDSM practice in which the dominant person forces the submissive person to orgasm — regardless of whether they want to in that moment or not.
FOOT FETISH
A Foot Fetish refers to the erotic fascination with feet — their shape, their texture, their scent, their movement. Foot Fetish is one of the most common fetishes there is and speaks to many different levels: visual, tactile, olfactory.
FACESITTING
Facesitting — also known as queening — refers to the practice of one person sitting on another's face — with the buttocks, vulva, or anal area. It's one of the most direct forms of physical dominance and submission.